How to praise others? Donglingjun has introduced a lot of animation protagonist's mental skills. In this article, please invite Fruits Basket's Mr. Honda to give us a lesson. She teaches us the local flavor metaphor. It's the new year. Praise others for their good deeds.
First of all, I would like to introduce the animation of"Fruits Basket"and her heroine Honda
"Fruits Basket"adapted from the cartoon of the same name by Takaya Natsuki, a Japanese cartoonist. This cartoon has a comparable status, with global sales of 30 million copies, and is one of the best selling Japanese girls' cartoons in the Guinness world record. 2001 is animated. The pictures used in this article are from the 2019 version. If you can get the treatment of reproduction, this work is strong. Needless to say.
This work has many characters and complex relationships. The story revolves around a young girl with positive and cheerful emotional quotient. The hostess's mother died. She was homeless. She found a wasteland to live in a tent. She accidentally met the owner of the Wasteland - the"Prince"of Cao Mo's family. They were classmates. Later, the female owner lived in Cao Mo's house and learned a lot of secrets. For example, when the people of Cao Mo's house were hugged by the opposite sex, they would become animals. They were possessed by the so-called twelve zodiac signs and so on. These possessed people are cursed and have their own pain. Our female Lord lodges there and becomes a noble person for their transportation.
The story of a woman who is as active as the sun and helps many handsome men and beautiful women get rid of curse and pain and change their fate. Animation has the flavor of harem, the flavor of second daughter, and more healing. Although it is an old work, the setting now seems not new, but people's delicate psychological description and warm chicken soup story are still a conscience animation worth pursuing for those who want to relieve emptiness and loneliness. The score of 9.7 in station B is a good proof.
Let's talk about Mr. Honda's earthy boasting method
This classic heart warming story comes from the fifth sentence - play with the poor. Honda studied making rice balls for the cultural festival. In the morning, she made a lot of rice balls. Ah Jia (Cao Mo Jia, one of the male owners, possessed by a cat) took one to eat. As soon as she took a bite, she threw up impolitely. He didn't like leek rice balls. So ah Chia made rice balls himself. When Honda saw Ah Chia's skilled technique of pinching rice balls, he began to praise him, saying that he was an advantage. People of cooking group practice would envy him, which was a great advantage.
He began to sprinkle dog food early in the morning to praise people. First, he got up early, and then praised him for his good skill in making rice balls. It's not easy to be a female host, but ah Jia doesn't appreciate it and smelly drag doesn't admit it. He doesn't think it's a merit worth boasting about. Honda looked at it and boasted directly that it didn't work. Analyze the reasons for the second round of praise, from"why didn't he realize it was an advantage?"Starting from this starting point, people have a earthy metaphor.
Compare the advantages to the dried plum of rice ball. The dried plum may stick to the back. Everyone in the world has different shapes, colors and tastes on their backs. However, maybe they didn't find their rare prunes because they were stuck behind their backs. Everyone thought they had nothing, a blank piece of rice, but in fact, it was not at all. It was clear that the dried plum was well glued to their backs.
The reason why I envy others may be that I can see the prunes on others' backs clearly, and I can see them very clearly. Ah Jia has a beautiful prune on his back. Cao Mo's classmate (Cao Mo Youxi, another male master, possessed by a mouse) is excellent, and ah Jia is also great.
By analogy, ah Jia's heart is in full bloom, her face is red, the praise effect is 100%, and the impression of the female host is soaring. Look carefully, Honda's truth is not profound at all. People can see the advantages and disadvantages of others, but they can't see themselves. It has nothing to do with whether they hide behind Mao. I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain. I only live in this mountain. Onlookers know the fans at that time, and they all say the same truth.
When I talk about this, I think of a classic passage in the examination of The best in Chinese super chef. The chef has to grade his own cuisine. It's really hard to score yourself by eating your own cook every day. This is not just a test of self-confidence.
Why don't people see themselves easily? Donglingjun thinks the reliable explanation is that people's senses receive information from the outside world. Look at others and receive more signals, so it's easy to see clearly. Look at yourself. Lasting signal stimulation is easy to numb, reduce sensitivity and get less effective information. I don't feel itchy when I scratch myself. That's probably what I mean. Moreover, we are all mortals, selfish and have various instinctive desires. This interference is difficult to eliminate.
It goes far. Besides, Honda's earthy metaphor compares people to rice balls and advantages to prunes. Although it is indecent, she uses it very locally and fits the environment, because it is making rice balls at this time, and ah Jia has just finished rice balls, which are effective external stimuli. It is more efficient and effective to generate emotion through situation.
Mr. motoda can make rational use of the skills of the external environment, which ordinary people can't learn and need to experience and learn repeatedly. In the Fruits Basket, we will repeatedly see that Honda skillfully uses the environment and scenes to praise others, which is really"moistening things silently". Pay more attention to this when watching animation, and we will gain more experience. Fully feeling and recognizing this skill is only the first step. Learn for me, and I can practice this skill in the future. That's even more a skill.
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