This animation is a classic expression, which implies praising others' Supreme mental skill
New fans should be pursued, and good-looking old fans should be supplemented."Monthly girls Nozaki-kun"is an animation worthy of supplement and repeated watching. There are many interesting stories. In this article, donglingjun comes to talk about the sixth sentence -"applying magic for you". There is a section of God's confession, which can be regarded as a classic and implies praising others' Supreme mental skill, which is worth experiencing and learning.
Background introduction: the supporting roles of men and women in"Monthly girls Nozaki-kun"are namedRuoshongBolong and LaiweiJieyue. Ruoshong is a slender and soft man, while Jieyue is a bold and domineering female student. As a foreign aid of the women's basketball department, it is common to go to the men's basketball department to make trouble with the ball. Among them, Ruo song suffered deeply. He felt that Jieyue didn't like him. He aimed at him every time when he hit people. Seeing her, her liver trembled, so that Yu ruoshong lost sleep because of her.
One day, Ruo song can sleep again after listening to a song recording from the male owner, and this song that can cure insomnia is sung by Jieyue. However, he did not know that the singer of the sound of nature in his mind was Jieyue. He mistakenly thought that the song came from a goddess named Lorelei.
The bright line and the moon make Ruo song lose sleep, and the dark line falls asleep because of her singing, which is really happy for her enemies. One day, the unbearable ruosung complained to the male owner Mei taro. Mei taro asked ruosung to refer to the way in the cartoon to have a showdown with Jieyue. As a result, there was the following"confession"of God.
Ruoshong angrily said,"I didn't expect it. I'm the one who called you out, senior Seto Jieyue. I've wanted to say it for a long time. You know what I want to say.". Jieyue:"well, of course I know. When you call me out, you must want to say that sentence, that is, call me with [nickname], right?". Ruosung:"totally wrong. What are you talking about. It's the basketball department, the basketball department. Jieyue:"Oh, we are always watching new collisions."."Basketball is not such a sport at all, and it's all you hitting people. I don't care if you're a helper of the women's department or something. We're very troubled. Don't come again.".
The first paragraph is a normal play to vent his anger, but Ruo song immediately changed his style when he saw the bowed Jieyue. Alas, warm men can't see women sad. Ruosung regretted and said,"even to master setao, it's too much to say this. Uh I. At this time, Jieyue looked up and said,"your name is ruoshong, let's call you ruoshong.". Cross server chat is powerful. Jieyue always thinks that ruoshong is here to express her love. I said,"why do you always bully me?"? It's always like this. He always smashes basketball at me. He doesn't even let me go during the rest. He also asks me to run errands, pick me to carry things, and takes me to a family restaurant. He forces me to invite me to dinner and only buys me gifts.".
In the second paragraph, is ruosung complaining or indicating that his EQ is too low? Mei Tai Lang, who peeped, couldn't see it anymore. She said in her heart,"she seems to like you very much.". He exchanged eyes with ruosung. Ruosung thought of the way to belittle others in the cartoon"comparison".
"elder, it's too much. Luo leilai of the vocal music department wouldn't do such a thing. Don't you know Lorelei? That is a very beautiful person. Although I haven't seen her, I listen to her songs every day. I understand that people with such beautiful songs must be very considerate and will not hurt anyone. They are pure, gentle and pure in heart. She is different from Seto. She belongs to the healing department. That gentle, clear song that can dispel all fatigue. Without it, I can't sleep. Well, insomnia is a matter of life and death for me, that is to say, yes, I can't live without her. She is my goddess! 】”。
What a magical compliment. He praised Lorelei in order to belittle Jieyue, but he didn't know that Lorelei was Jieyue. This paragraph of the month ending approval was so cool that she specially asked ruoshong to"say it again". Originally, he came to quarrel, but ruoshong finally threw (gave) gloves.
A classic confession. In order to belittle a, praise B, and B is a, and the final result is praising a. It is said to be classic because there are two important ways to praise people at the same time.
Mental skill 1. Belittle a person before praising him to create a contrast effect.This is a good design and implementation. Ma Li introduced it in happy Mahua's sketch"like it". Before the leader's speech, first give him a look to question him, then show that he is convinced by the leader's words, suddenly understand it, such as being baptized, and finally stand in the same trench with the leader.
Take another example:"a person in the group, don't go too far. Really, I don't want to swear. You say that behind my back. If someone didn't come and tell me personally, I really didn't know you talked so much. You actually say behind my back that I am handsome, that I am talented, that I am single-minded and masculine, and a festival has come again. Now many little sisters add me, which makes me too busy now. Do you think it's interesting?"Can people be unhappy with this method of belittling before praising.
Mental method 2,"pointing to mulberry and praising locust".Changed from"pointing at mulberry trees and swearing at locust trees", which is just the right word to describe it. Praise another person seriously, but you are actually praising this person. This is a little difficult. For example, if you want to praise a colleague, you can find her previous articles, PPT, etc., and then find an occasion to say to this colleague:"I found a good article, especially deep. You can have a look and learn together". This method of praising people seems to come from the heart and from the heart. People who are praised are also very useful.
The two mental cores are"comparison"
Comparison is to use people's cognitive psychology to compare things and phenomena together, so as to highlight the essential characteristics of the compared things. The greater the difference, the more attractive it is.Dong Lingjun believes that the comparison method is not only attractive,But also more impressive. The above mental method 1 is a vertical comparison of a single object, which is demoted first and then raised. The second mental method is the horizontal comparison of different objects, and it is also necessary to skillfully make different objects become the same object.
The story of the sixth words of"Monthly girls Nozaki-kun"cleverly integrates the two mental skills, which can be called"the supreme mental skill of praising people". I admire the author, and I don't regret watching this cartoon.
Routine benefits: after chatting about animation, go and make up for those you haven't seen. Friends who can read here will also have some insights. Finally, let's try this comparative method to boast about others. The code word is not easy. Please like Sanlian.
