The soul is very fragile, the perception is also very bad,"The Demon Girl Next Door"female Lord is not a"loser"? What is the mental model of losers? Take a look at the little witch in The Demon Girl Next Door, and you will understand
The Demon Girl Next Door and read another word. Yuuko, the little witch, has both the bright side and the sad side. Let's analyze it below.
Yoko had a dream, a sad dream, in which she saw her ancestor Lilith again. Lilith was not at all polite to her and kept on criticizing her. Baby, your heart is very fragile, your understanding is also very poor, heartless, bad memory, poor physical strength, and your combat effectiveness is weak to explosion. The connection with our ancestors is also too weak. Compared with the mobile phone signal, there is only one electricity. Understood with our traditional culture, it is called no family inheritance, forgetting our ancestors and being unfilial.
The task assigned by our ancestors woke up and my mother forgot as soon as she interrupted. Give me some pocket money. I can't resist the temptation to spend it casually. Donglingjun even thinks that Youzi is"heartless and heartless"and relies on being silly to please the audience.
But let's calm down and analyze it. It's really not what it seems. As the saying goes,"think every day and dream at night", according to the theory of psychology, xiaoyouzi is still under a lot of pressure. It's really not as heartless as it is in the animation. This feeling is just because she is really incompetent at present, has poor self-control and is easy to be led away. In fact, the little witch really wants to defeat the magic girl and change the current situation of her family. She also has deep feelings for her incompetence and has low self-esteem for a long time. Look at how fast and often her tears come. It's not pretend. I'm relieved.She has a lot of self blame, anxiety and pressure, so she has a"nightmare"when she sleeps. She is really uncomfortable.
After talking here, Dongling thought of the view of an article by teacher Wu.What kind of person is a"loser"?Is what we often call loser. From the external situation and performance, it is difficult for us to judge, because although some people are still proud of defeat, as long as they don't die, they always have the opportunity to fight a turnaround. The article gives a judgment angle,Judge from people's mental model.The external performance is loser, and the internal performance is alsoLoser mode, which is basically a stone hammer for a loser.
What is the mental model and thinking logic of losers?In short, it means to"deny the problem". The problem I have to face is gone, my psychology is comfortable, and the world is well again. We also use the little witch as an example,In the face of the problem of"unable to win the magic girl", what is the mentality of the loser?
A. Have your ancestors ever won? You haven't won. I can't win. It's natural. It's genetic. You can't win. Why are you pushing me here. The question of not winning was denied.
B, my combat effectiveness is weak because I don't eat well, my family is poor, and my education is not as good as that of a magic girl. She's not bad for me. Complain about others, throw the problem to others, and your own problem is denied again.
C, the magic girl is too powerful. That's because she hangs up. Their family has a background. That's an improper means. The other students in the class couldn't beat her. The problem wasn't me, so it was over.
If the little witch thinks so,She can be relieved instantly in her heart.Because it's too easy and simple to think so. You don't have to suffer. There's no risk. The reason is very easy to find. It's not hard at all. However, if you think so, you really embark on the road of loser. It is a"loser mental model", and it is also an"enhancement loop".
A it's cool to think about it. It's cool to take the pressure back. With idea B, the reason why we can't win is better and better. You can also continue the CDE idea. As long as you want to save yourself, you can continue to strengthen it for thousands of reasons.
The loser's mental model is over. Fortunately,Our little witch Youzi doesn't have these ideas of escape, although she is not a winner, she is by no means a loser.She admitted that she was weak, but she did not deny herself, let alone the problem of negation.People are still exercising, slowly improving their strength, silently bearing the inner pain, which is worthy of respect.
In the third words of The Demon Girl Next Door, the little witch also has a highlight moment. When she was forcibly trained by the magic girl, Youzi shouted out her inner voice with a magic wand,"let's get along well", which is the key word to liberate her magic. It turned out that although the little witch was reluctantly forced to challenge the magic girl, her most real idea was"let's get along well".
Routine welfare: in the face of the problem of knocking down the magic girl, is the idea of getting along well regarded as the"negative problem"mentioned above? It's like negation, but I don't feel negation. What kind of mental model is this? Private discussion is welcome.
